Re: HELP! My duc. just died!
When you turn the key, do you at least hear the click of the relay?
I had similar symptoms, but mine was dying a slow death. When I would turn the key, if I walked away for a few minutes, it would miraculously turn on (sometimes). It turned out that I had a broken brake light connector. The connector's clip broke and it was sometimes connected and sometimes not. It would also occasionally bounce against the frame when the circuit was energized, killing that yellow relay. The bike would continue to run, but it would cause the ignition circuit never to close. I still have a little scar on the frame from where the lead was shorting to the frame.
I would recommend going over every electrical connection on your bike. It's a major pain in the a**, but that's your most likely culprit from what you've said. Disconnect, inspect, and reconnect every single connection, testing the bike after each one.
Good luck! Electrical gremlins are so frustrating. (You might get more people looking at your post if you put the year, model, and mention of potential electrical issue in the subject line of your post. Your subject isn't very descriptive of your problem.)